Friday 24 August 2012


hello, 

we are discussing about how to overcome against situations and circumstances.

There are variety  of situations and circumstances.

so single solution is not possible.

Depending upon the problems ,solutions will also be different.

Situation-1

If you are overjoyed or over sad ,there will  always be a danger of falling prey to situations and circumstances.


        




stock photo : beauty girl cry              stock photo : Depressed teenage girl.
 Don’t allow emotions to  control you.

You should control your emotions within your limits.

Have you ever saw peoples and buildings from a hill station?


 They are look like ants!

Try to look away from you.





                                                          see you again.


Saturday 18 August 2012

Hai




 May be today will be a good day for all of you.






Fools only make same mistake twice!

Is it is  true?  No.

We are all human beings. It is nature to commit mistakes. But what compels a man to make same mistake again and again.

It is situations and circumstances.

we confuse that situations and circumstances are same ; but both are different.

Let us consider an example.

A Doctor advise to a sugar patient  not to eat sweets.

 The patient also intended not to eat sweets in future for the sake of his well being.

He informed his wife about hes intention.

 up to when he is in home he is safe.

What happens when he moves out for some reason?

When he goes to market or to his office he may come across many sweet stalls, which tempt him to eat sweets. This is circumstances.







When he visit to relation houses or meeting with friends or attending parties, he may be tempted to eat sweets.  on those occasions he may not have control over his senses . This is situations.

From this it is clear that situations and circumstances are stronger than us

The same thing happens when we want to overcome our bad habits,

we realize that bad habits are more powerful than good habits!

so we are committing same mistake again and again; then afterwards we feel sorry or it;

Then we talk to ourselves, I want to control my senses but unable to do, so I will  try for next time, but we are slipping again and again!

How many chances you require? one or two or hundred or thousand, hay man , I will bet you never succeed in it!

Why? is there is any way for this.

Many people in this world are falling prey to this situations and circumstances even-though they want to overcome from it.

Let us discuss in next article one of the way how to control over situations and circumstances.






good bye










Saturday 11 August 2012



Hello,

I hope you are well today.

 The biggest problem in these days are loneliness.

 We feel no body cares for us. no body asking us. no phone calls from our loved ones. Even our neighbor not sharing anything with us.

our thoughts will goes like this.

 "what is the purpose of  I am living here? No use for anybody. Even the death has not coming to me.

The GOD had also forgotten me"

. The thoughts will goes on , because no body there to stop it.

 But we forget one thing  ie.  in the above thinking we consider about man only.

 But it is not true.

There are birds , animals, plants, trees and wind always welcomes our presence here.

 Just call a dog with sound.
 It will twists it tail showing its love towards you.






Have you ever see and feel, after pouring a water to a plant, it gently shakes it branches offering thanks to you!



There are many other small like these things, which always welcomes your presence.

So shift your attention from man to nature.

The nature expect  nothing from you, other than your love.

It cost nothing to you.

So love the nature at least from now.





You are the most important person for this world ,  not in this world !

You are surrounded by the almighty world.

Be happy always.






bai





Friday 10 August 2012

Hai,

I am again only for you!

We are all busy now a days.

. Even we don't think what is happening around us.

 Some times we come across many people who are already known to us.. somebody we may not know.

 What I am like to say here is that,  if any of them smiles us , we at many times not smiling back to them. 

 The reason behind this is very simple.

 We are always thinking about ourselves. our problems.

 Smiling  costs nothing.

 But it brings Cheerfulness in our souls. some freshness. we forget our sadness , sorrows, loneliness, and you believe it or not, it even overcomes depression.

Many people think that only man has ability to smile.

that's why I have shown a monkey's photo here. look at it for few minutes. see it eyes. how it's expressions. its face. its mouth. All it shows, you are so important to it.

 so smile with full hearted.



bai